Valentine's Day would lead us to believe that romantic love is the only love that's worth celebrating. And every day of the year, societal 'norms' dictate that we're only living a half-life until we've paired up - preferably in the heteronormative sense. I'm single, and queer. I have my own home, my own business, and…
Editor dilemmas: turning down a job
I turned down a job last week. A very well-paying one. I could have easily gone ahead and worked on this client's manuscript, ignoring the nagging feeling that being part of the publication process for this particular work did not align with my values. I certainly needed the money. But as I read through the…
It will be Spring Tomorrow
Here’s a poem I wrote on the eve of spring five years ago. I was heartbroken but hopeful, just out of a long relationship and in a new home. Five years on and I'm a bit bruised and battered after a dreadfully hard eight months. This year the beginning of spring brings only quiet hope…
Book Review: The Queen’s Wife
New Zealand author Joanne Drayton launches her new book The Queen's Wife TONIGHT as part of Auckland Pride Month's Samesame but Different LGBTQIA+ Writers and Readers Festival. Congratulations, Joanne! I reviewed the book for NZ Booklovers. Here is my review: ‘Life is a game of chess. You should try playing it with two queens.’ So…
Anniversary
This story was announced today as Highly Commended in the NZSA Northern Branch Short Story Competition. We had to write on the theme of Loss. The story actually constitutes just one part of a larger work (more to come on that), but was originally based on my experience of miscarriage. I press my hands deeper…
Fully Alive
“Do not ask for what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and do it. For what the world needs is people who are fully alive.”-Howard Thurman 'But you're not thinking like an entrepreneur!' This was a (well-intentioned) observation made to a friend of mine recently. He had shared with a group of…
Book Review: Mila and the Bone Man
Mila and the Bone Man by Lauren Roche Book reviewing 101: Review a book when you’ve finished it. I thought I would try something different with Lauren Roche’s Mila and the Bone Man. I’m currently reading it, and I propose this: a short meditation on the journey so far. The thoughts and feelings that have…
Quick Tips #11: Pantsing vs. Plotting: which is better?
A panster tends to write their way into a story, without planning the plot in advance. A plotter does the opposite. They like to plan, then write to that plan. Neither method is better or worse; both have their benefits and pitfalls. Pantsing can open writers up to a wild creativity that advance plotting might…
A Halloween Poem for Writers
The Muse: The CASE for Writer's Block The mists had come, the night was still, the moon was sick and shy, The sun had set but still its blood was dripping on the sky. And at her desk she took her plume and dipped it in her ink, The virgin page was panting in its…
Mother and Child
Sometimes a twist at the end of a story can work, and other times it falls flat. Here's an example in one of my flash fiction stories. Do you think it works? Mother and Child Your cry annihilates a rare dream. Since you came I snatch at sleep like a starving refugee. I pad through…
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